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This page was designed to help answer the most common questions that I receive. If you have a question that is not addressed here or elsewhere on my website, it is probably not relevant to our engagement.

I've spend considerable amount of time and effort in making this site as complete and concise as possible to avoid un necessary back and forth emails which is time consuming. Please take a moment to read this site thoughtfully, you will find most answers to your questions. Thank you!

Q: Can I have your phone number?

A: To ensure complete discretion I prefer contact to be via email. After coming to an agreement on a date I will give you (the day before our engagement date) a contact number (non-mobile) used exclusively for engagement purposes (i.e. confirmation of arrival to the incall location). I do not partake in phone conversation. I prefer in person contact ;)

Phone calls (if needed to discuss further details) must be pre-arranged due to my un-related full-time professional occupation. I can't talk freely anytime and most likely you will get a voice mail on the number provided. Therefore email contact is always the most discreet and fastest way to get in touch with me.

 
Q: Can I email you directly instead of filling up your Contact Booking Form?
A: Unfortunately first time email contact has proven ineffective and time consuming. The fastest most complete, secure and discreet primary contact is best via my Contact Booking Form. Thereafter we can email each other directly in the sole purpose of booking an engagement. All new customers must fill-up my booking form to facilitate verification, even if you are referred by an established customer, thank you for your kind understanding!
 
Q: What will I get when meeting you?
A:  You will received lots of attention to the most particular details making our encounter a memorable moment. I great deal of preparation is incurred to ensure the perfect sensual mood. Beside my personal extensive grooming I provide soft music, candles, finest French/Italian lingerie and a few more surprises. Know that you will leave with a huge smile on your face. I have that effect on people :)
 
Q: I would like to book you for an outcall, can you tell me what to expect? 
A: That is either outcall in private, dinner dates, cocktail parties, business and social functions, traveling and as a hostess for special occasions. I can assure you that when coming to your door, I will be stunning! Like I just stepped out of a fashion magazine! If you prefer I can be more conservative or executive as well. Either way I will never look like "a working girl". When going out, I will be impeccably dressed wearing the finest elegant garments. No heads will be left unturned as I walk into a restaurant with you or anywhere else for that matter. My top model looks are what people see at first, but I'm also an alluring woman with a great personality and exude a subtle sensuality that can be felt when entering a room. Also note that I will most likely arrive with a small luggage full of goodies including: candles, music player and the finest French/Italian lingerie and perhaps a few more surprises.
 
Q: Why don't you reply to my form submission or/and emails?
A:  There could be several reasons. Maybe I did get back to you but your spamware is preventing my reply. Possibly you didn't type your email right or you didn't fill-up the required fields on the form. Perhaps your questions are not relevant to our date and/or already clearly mentioned on this site. If you where impolite, rude or disrespectful, your request will be left unanswered. I will not tolerate such attitude. Our communication must be based on mutual respect at all time.
 
Q: Why do you require references from providers and/or deposits? 
A:  Primarily for safety reasons and to be sure you are indeed a "real" person and serious about meeting. Cancelled dates and "no-shows" are a huge waste of time and costly to all providers. It's the same as stealing from us!
Also, I will gladly provide references for my customers, use my private email only and please do NOT give out my phone number! Thank you for respecting my privacy.
 
Q: Where is your incall location?

A: When traveling I offer incalls in central metropolitan area or within close proximity unless indicated otherwise. For privacy/security reasons incall address will be provided only the day before our set date. When traveling and providing incalls at a hotel, I will ask you to call upon arrival, I will then then give my room number.

Note that I retain a few domiciles, including; Southern CA and South FL, USA as well as London, UK and Montreal, Canada. Please view my calendar for locations and availabilities.

 
Q: I'm time limited and was looking to book less time than the minimum requirement, would this be possible? If so, how much will it be? 
A: Yes, we can meet at your convenience if you are time limited, although my minimum required donation still applies no matter the duration of our date.
 
Q: I would like to meet you somewhere for coffee or a drink; I would like to see if we are compatible?
A:  Yes, of course! But my minimum required donation still applies, you can book me at my minimum basic donation requirement, we can have coffee or cocktails together, then take it from there.
 
Q: I wish to have a dinner date with you, what's your preference?
A: I am well traveled and acquired a wide range of fine cuisine knowledge. I'm a fan of Asian; especially Thai, Indian; I prefer Punjabi style, as well as Mediterranean; French, Italian and Spanish, to name a few. I can find healthy alternative anywhere really.
 
Q: What kind of attributes do you expect in your customers?
A: As most women would want; cleanliness, well mannered and respectful. If you treat me like a goddess I sure will make you feel like the king of this universe! Generosity also goes a long way too! I am extremely generous in all areas of my life and find it to be rewarding to make others happy. Especially if they deserve it! There's nothing I despise more then dishonest, cheap and greedy people.
 
Q: Do you require tipping?
A:   No, but if you wish to do so I will gracefully accept. Service providers of any trade would view this as a gesture of appreciation. I sure practice tipping with all of the service people I encounter.
 
Q: Do you really enjoy doing this, is that why your rates are so reasonable?
A:  Indeed, high caliber providers rates usually starts at 1K. I enjoy bringing pleasure and happiness to others. I'm genuinely doing this for the right reasons! My rates are lower than other world-class top models because I wish to meet a wide range of people. I believe that you can get the highest quality services, true beauty, sensuality, class and sophistication at mid range donation. That doesn't mean that I will meet anyone. I am very selective with whom I share my precious time. If you don't comply with my very relaxed requirements I will decline your request.
 
Q: Are you selective of whom you meet? 
A:  It's not because you can afford my donations that I will automatically book an appointment with you! I have high standards and I am extremely selective of whom I meet. I cater only to distinguished upscale gentlemen, ladies and couples that are compassionate, gentle, and honest.
 
Q: What if I need to cancel, report our date or arrive late?
A: I understand that the unexpected does happen and if a change must be made please be courteous enough to give me an adequate notice of at least 24 hours. I have ZERO tolerance for individuals that take other people's time for granted! Out of respect for each other's valuable time, we must keep our engagement for the date and time agreed upon. I allow 15 minutes tardiness on incalls, more than that will reflect on your booking time. I will refuse to give you another date if you cancel or report date/time of our meeting without adequate notice, unless a true emergency occurring that is completely out of your control. A 50% compensation on cancelled date (under 24 hours notice) will apply and possibly a deposit will be required on future dates.
 
Q: Do you offer role-playing or fetishes, if so, what's the sessions donation?

A: I am available for safe Fetishes and Fantasy of all kinds. My favorites fetishes are: Foot, leg and body worship, shoes and boots worship. I'm a fan of vintage lingerie, corsets, Full Fashion Stockings, HRT's, Cuban Heels backseam stockings and beautiful feminine shoes including pointy toe pumps and open mules.

I'm also available for safe Role-playing sessions. For security reasons I always remain the Dominant party in ALL Role-playing sessions. My favorite sessions consist of: servitude, domestic and toilet training, water sports, cross dressing, authority figure scenes, BDSM ritual themes. I have years of experience in this domain. You can contact me with your particular Role-playing ideals; I always welcome new imaginative sessions.

Equipment and Facility I'm very well equipped for many fetishes and Role-playing sessions but if your request demands some items I do not have, you will have to incur the cost of these items and/or local dungeon facility (if needed) in your area when traveling to you. I do not travel with BDSM equipment for safety reasons; I can bring non-obvious items when meeting out of state/country.

Please contact me with your special request; we can discreetly discuss the session details and donation.

 
Q: I would like to role-play and/or PDA in public, would that be possible?
A: I love public role-playing/PDA but unless we are in an outback area where no one knows me, I will have to decline for privacy reasons. I have far to many international socialite acquaintances that would love nothing more than a good gossip LOL.
 
Q: Would you consider meeting my lady and I, if so, what's the donation?
A:  It would be my pleasure to meet both of you. I genuinely enjoy the company of other sensual women. I only require that the session be a minimum of two hours for complete enjoyment. No additional donation required.
 
Q: How about meeting two men at the same time?
A: Yes, love it! Same answer as above. No additional donation required.
 
Q: Would you consider groups and "swing" clubs? If so, how does it work?
A:  Yes, but I prefer small groups of quality people in an intimate atmosphere. Very few "swing" clubs are of high caliber. I am only interested in private adult clubs with high standards and selective memberships, with great themes and classy gathering. Donations are the same as for my Outcall Dinner and Dancing packages. No additional donation required.
 
Q: I have a modeling agency and I'm looking to hire you, would that be possible?
A: No thanks, I've worked with an International modeling agency full time as a top model for many years. I now work on other projects than modeling. That was a personal decision as I felt like I was loosing my freedom too much as a Pro Model. I like to work in modeling on my own terms, freelance on project that interest me only.
 
Q: What about an Escort Agency?
A: My answer is still no; I've been working exclusively with a wonderful lady on the west coast that caters exclusively to the elite internationally and her donation package starts at 1k/h with a minimum of 4 hours. Her elite customers are located in specific countries and cities, that is why I have this web site to accommodate other regions with lower donations when on location elsewhere.
 
Q: I'm a woman who wish to share your lifestyle, would that be possible?
A: Absolutely! But you have to be very open-minded and looking to expend your sensuality. You must be genuinely bi-sexual and in to this for the right reasons. You're reliable, trustworthy, honest and loyal. Last but not least, a non-smoker, drug free and heath oriented as well as beautiful inside out. If that's you Contact me ASAP!
 
Q: Do you have any reviews?
A: A few I think, but I don't check any of these sites. I am somewhat new as an independent but as I mentioned above, I'm not a novice. I'm very professional and always give 1000%, be sure you will be more than satisfied on all level. I strive for perfection and always with a win/win situation in mind. I've worked with a very private first class lady that caters exclusively to the elite at high-end rates. Such gentleman wishes to remain completely anonymous and would never jeopardize their privacy by writing reviews. But, If privacy is not an issue for you and you wish to leave me a glorious review, please go ahead! Please do NOT enclose my private email and phone number. Thank you for respecting my privacy.
 
Q: Where are you from? You have an accent.
A:  Most common question! I am of Norwegian ancestry though from Denmark, my forefathers are the founders of a small Scandinavian village in central California. My primary residence is now in Southern California. My accent is not from one particular place as I studied abroad in several different languages. Therefore It's my own unique "custom-made" accent, but my primary language is English.
 
Q: I am curious to know your age, there's no mention on your site.
A: I don't see how this is relevant to our engagement, if you like my appearance and personality, isn't all that matters? My mother advised me that a lady never reveals her age and that some mystery is very appealing to men. Therefore all I will tell you is that I am old enough to drink Champagne! Though you should know that despite my young appearance I am well educated, mature and I have life experiences as well as knowledge. I started exploring at a very young age.
 
Q: Are you married and/or do you have any children?
A:  I don't see how being married have anything to do with our date but if you must know, I am not married. Though I do understand why you would ask me about child birth, I have not gone through this either ;)
 
Q: I am a photographer and would like to offer my services for my portfolio, would you be interested in test shots?
A:  Absolutely! You must be a professional or amateur with a good portfolio. If you're just a guy with a camera, that just wont do LOL. But if during our session you wish to take a few snap shots, as long as my identity is not revealed, no problem. Don't get me wrong, I don't mind showing my face on my nude photos, as long as it's not associated with escort work, unfortunately. I am not ashamed of it, actually I love sharing my sensuality! It's just that the rest of the world can be very judgmental and cannot take the risk of exposing this side of my life to the world. I am sure you understand my privacy concern.
 
Q: I would like to take photos and/or film out time together, would that be possible? If so, what is the donation for this service?

A: The only reason I would say no, is in fear of having my identity revealed as I have much to loose if this kind of material would be out there. I recently change my mind as I find this proposition very exciting! I will allow such option to take place selectively as well as exclusively to established & regular customers and for outcalls only. Second; all material will remain in my possession for review to be sure my face is masked at all time. Be prepared to give me the original film/digital card. Third; I will remain the sole owner of this material and will give you access after encryption for your private viewing only. No additional donations are required on my end but a fee will be incurred for the video/photo lab production, contact me for a quote. I can also arrange a discreet professional to film and/or take photos, thought you will have to incur extra fees for the producer.

 
Q: We've never met before but would still like access to your private member's area, would that be possible?
A: The answer is clear on my members' area page. An I quote: "The member's area remains exclusive to established and regular customers only. I will NOT give access to people I haven't seen before, please don't ask.
 
Q: Can I bring anything to make our time even more special?
A: You can bring anything you'd like really. I love fresh fruits, San Pellegrino water, Cabernet Sauvignon red wine from the Napa Valley region. Cognac, Brandy and Vodka as well to name a few. I like to try everything at least once, so if you think I may like a certain liqueur, indulge me! You can also take a look at my wishlist if you'd like.
 
Q: Beside private Erotic Nude Modeling, do you have any other hobbies?
A:  Besides sex and shopping? Yes, of course, to many to list here. But if you'd like to know, studying new venues is one of them. Some people collect stamps, I collect college degrees LOL. Seriously, I have a few college and doctorate degrees from well-known academic institutions and long distance studies. I spend a good part of my time volunteering for causes dear to me. I also have an affinity for fashion (an understatement!), art and refined niche items of all kinds. I am also involved in a few sports. I can tell you more on our dinner date ;)
 
Q: I would like to get you a present, what do you like?
A:  I love lingerie; especially Baby Dolls or anything else you would like to bring me, if it's sexy, I will like it! View my measurements here. Sizes may vary depending on the designer. some of my favorite designer clothing are from Chanel, D&G and Valentino to Guess, BCBG MAXAZRIA and Juicy Couture to name a few. Please visit my wishlist where you will find what I like and want at this time.
 
Q: Could we get to know each other just as personal friends? 
A:  I'm flattered that you choose me as a potential personal friend but I must decline your invitation as I have a small circle of personal friends and don't have much time for new ones. On a professional level I offer great companionship that can develop into a long term gratifying friendship. I do consider some of my clients to be my friends but our meetings remain on a professional level by choice of keeping boundaries. 
 
Q: I would like to have an arrangement with you as my sugar baby, is that possible? If so, can you be exclusive to me?
A:Yes, but this can only be possible if you are attached/married and understand that our relationship has boundaries in terms of privacy. Also, know that being exclusive to you will be costly but probably viewed as reasonable for upscale gentlemen who appreciated the finer things in life. Alternatively, I can be partially exclusive if that is a better arrangement for you. I have high standard and will be very selective with whom I will make such arrangements. For the right person I am willing to relocate to some of my preferred locations. Know that the rewards are unlimited as you will experience the best time of your life! This offer is exclusive to established customers, If you haven't seen me before, I suggest that you book a dinner/evening date to test our compatibility and to discuss your proposal.
 
Q: I like to party and use drugs with you or alone when together, is that ok?
A:  No! Drug usage or cigarettes smoke in my presence are forbidden. NO exception. I lead a very healthy lifestyle and do not participate in recreational drugs. I know how to "party" naturally!





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